Overcome fear of solo trips

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Eastern Sierra Solo Camp Convict Lake

For many women, the idea of taking a solo road trip or camping adventure sounds equally thrilling and intimidating. The freedom of the open road, the stillness of nature, the sense of self-reliance—it’s magical. But let’s be honest: there’s also fear. Fear of breaking down in the middle of nowhere. Fear of wildlife. Fear of being alone. Fear of not being safe. Can you actually overcome fear of solo trips?

The good news? These fears are valid—and manageable. With the right mindset, thoughtful preparation, and a few simple tools, you can turn fear into confidence. This guide is for any woman who dreams of hitting the road and sleeping under the stars—but feels hesitant about doing it alone.

Facing the Fear: You’re Not Weird for Being Nervous

Despite what social media might make you believe, most adventurous women didn’t start out fearless. The truth is, many of us felt overwhelmed the first time we set out on our own.

Some of the most common fears I hear from women (and that I’ve had myself) include:

  • Getting lost
  • Car trouble in remote areas
  • Wildlife encounters
  • Uncomfortable encounters with strangers
  • Accidents or medical emergencies
  • Fear of being alone at night

Naming these fears is the first step in taking away their power. Let’s go through them one by one—and replace anxiety with preparation.

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4Runner Camping

“What If My Car Breaks Down?”

This is a very common fear—and one that’s happened to me. I was just starting a six-day solo road trip I had dreamed about for months when a freak accident stopped me in my tracks. It was frustrating, emotional, and, at the time, scary. But I got through it—and now I plan differently.

Here’s what helps:

  • Get your car serviced before any long trip (fluids, tires, brakes, battery).
  • Carry basic tools: jumper cables, a tire repair kit, and a portable air compressor.
  • Sign up for roadside assistance (AAA, insurance, or manufacturer programs).
  • Download offline maps and keep a printed version as backup.
  • Carry extra water and snacks in case you get stuck waiting.

After that breakdown, I now build buffer time into my trips and always have a Plan B. It hasn’t stopped me from road-tripping—it’s just made me better at it.

Wildlife Worries: What If Something Shows Up?

Sleeping in places where wild animals roam can feel unsettling. But the reality is that most wildlife wants nothing to do with you.

What helps?

  • Learn what animals live in the region and how to avoid attracting them.
  • Store food properly using bear boxes, canisters, or scent-proof bags.
  • Avoid camping near water sources or berry patches.
  • Keep bear spray or a loud whistle accessible.
  • If car camping, keep doors locked and consider a motion sensor light outside your vehicle for peace of mind.

Personally, I love sleeping in the back of my SUV. It’s cozy, secure, and lets me camp in more remote spots without worrying about tents or critters.

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Eastern Sierra – Mobius Arch

Getting Lost: The Fear You Can Outsmart

Whether it’s taking the wrong forest road or losing the trail on a hike, the fear of getting lost is real—but beatable.

Try this:

  • Use navigation apps like Gaia GPS or AllTrails, and download maps offline.
  • Learn to recognize landmarks and follow trail blazes.
  • Share your trip plans with a friend and set check-in times.
  • Stick to well-trafficked routes or campgrounds on your first few trips.

Even if you don’t consider yourself “techy,” having a paper map and compass can be a powerful confidence booster.

Safety Around Strangers: Trusting Yourself

This fear is deeply personal—and valid. We’ve been taught to be cautious, especially when alone. But here’s a reframe: your intuition is a strength. Trust it. It’s a compass honed by generations of women before you.

What Helps:

  • Choose public campgrounds or dispersed areas where you’re not completely isolated.
  • Park with an exit route—don’t let yourself get boxed in.
  • Use privacy window covers and don’t advertise that you’re solo.
  • Keep safety tools close: a whistle, personal alarm, pepper spray, or GPS beacon like the Garmin inReach Mini.
  • Lie if needed. You don’t owe anyone the truth about your plans or if you’re alone.

I’ve packed up and left when something didn’t feel right—and never regretted it. Most people I’ve met while camping or on the road have been kind and respectful, but I never ignore that inner signal.

Want more tips on dealing with creepy encounters while camping or road tripping alone? Check out my Guide.

Eastern Sierra Hot Creek Geological Site
Eastern Sierra – Hot Creek Geological Site

Injuries and Emergencies: What If I Get Hurt?

This is one of those fears that feels big, but is easily reduced with preparation.

Tips to stay safe:

  • Bring a basic first aid kit and familiarize yourself with what’s inside.
  • Take a wilderness or roadside safety course—it’s empowering and practical.
  • Don’t push yourself past your limits in remote areas.
  • Carry essentials: a flashlight, knife, backup charger, emergency blanket, and extra food and water.
  • Have a way to call for help: cell signal booster, satellite communicator. You can even call 911 on a smartphone when it has no active service.

A pre-trip checklist can go a long way in making sure you’re set up for success—and peace of mind.

The Confidence Mindset: You Don’t Need to Be Fearless

The biggest shift in solo travel and camping isn’t gear—it’s mindset. You don’t have to be 100% confident. You just have to be willing.

Build your courage with small steps:

  • Do a one-night trip close to home to test your setup.
  • Keep a journal to track your growth and reflect on challenges you’ve overcome.
  • Celebrate the little wins: finding the perfect boondocking spot, fixing a minor car issue solo.
  • Don’t internalize criticism or skepticism from others. This is your journey. Many, even close loved ones, will not understand why you want to travel or camp alone.

Each trip builds your resilience, self-trust, and independence.

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Solo Camping – Stars

A Personal Note

I’ll never forget my first night solo camping in the beautiful Eastern Sierra of California. I had spent years watching women on YouTube take solo road trips and sleep under the stars, and I couldn’t wait to experience it for myself. But as the date got closer, doubt started creeping in: What if I get too cold? What if someone knocks on my car window? What if I break down?

None of those things happened—at least not on that trip. Instead, I discovered something incredible: I loved it. The solitude, the quiet, the sense of capability—it unlocked a new version of me. I’ve been chasing that feeling ever since. And even when things have gone wrong on other trips, I now know I can handle it.

Final Thoughts

Solo road tripping and camping aren’t about being fearless—they’re about moving forward anyway. They’re about preparing, listening to your gut, and discovering just how capable you really are.

If you’ve been hesitating, I hope this nudges you closer. The road is calling—and you can answer it. You’re not alone in your fears. But you are more ready than you think.

And once you go… mark my words: you’ll wonder why you waited so long!

Eastern Sierra Solo Camp Convict Lake
Eastern Sierra Solo Camp – Convict Lake

Have you overcome fear of solo trips?

Does the above resonate with your past experience of taking solo trips? Or perhaps you like the idea of heading out on your own but haven’t quite committed to doing this yet. Please share your thoughts and ideas to overcome fear of solo trips in the comments below.

Alejandra Iorgulescu
Alejandra Iorgulescu
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Alejandra, known as “Alex” to most in the U.S., was born and raised in Buenos Aires, Argentina. Her love of travel was sparked during childhood road trips from Buenos Aires to Patagonia, but it truly took root after a solo trip through Europe in 2001. In 2002, she moved to California, drawn by its climate and stunning natural diversity—from beaches to mountains and deserts—all within a few hours’ reach.

Her YouTube channel and website, Miles and Hikes, were born during a solo cross-country road trip and reflects her passion for road travel, camping and hiking. Alex built the channel from scratch while juggling a demanding tech career. Through her content, she shares outdoor adventures, travel tips, and the joy of finding creative freedom in the great outdoors.

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51 responses to “Overcome fear of solo trips”

  1. Caroline Avatar
    Caroline

    I would love to go on a solo trip, but fear has definitely stopped me! These are really good tips, and starting with one night is a good plan. Thank you for sharing!

  2. Leslie Avatar
    Leslie

    This post is very encouraging. I also have some reservations about solo trips, so I really appreciate the tips you shared. I agree that doing the necessary preparations such as getting the car serviced before a long trip and bringing essential items like a first-aid kit, extra food, and water. It definitely makes a big difference

    1. Alex - Miles and Hikes Avatar
      Alex – Miles and Hikes

      I had a million reservations before my first solo trip, Leslie! I completely understand when people are afraid of even trying it. But the thing is? it’s very easy to get caught up in our heads, and a fear loop. That’s why starting small really helps, you’ll gain confidence and realize that not everything and everyone is out to get you when you’re alone.

  3. Marysa Avatar
    Marysa

    I would definitely have some qualms about doing a solo trip. These are good tips and a good boost to confidence. We have to have more faith in ourselves, it is just a matter of being best prepared.

    1. Alex - Miles and Hikes Avatar
      Alex – Miles and Hikes

      Aww, thank you, Marysa. I completely get that—having qualms is totally normal. I think you’re exactly right that preparation makes all the difference, and so does trusting ourselves a little more each time. Even small solo experiences can be such a confidence boost. I’m really glad you found the tips helpful.

  4. Kat Avatar
    Kat

    building up your confidence with those small backyard sessions is a smart move. starting slow can help feel much safer during my own adventures.

    1. Alex - Miles and Hikes Avatar
      Alex – Miles and Hikes

      Absolutely, Kat—starting small really does make a big difference. Those backyard or close-to-home practice runs can build so much confidence without the pressure. They also help you realize that the world isn’t out to get you and that there isn’t a serial killer hiding behind every bush. I’m so glad that approach resonated with you, and I hope it makes your own adventures feel even safer and more enjoyable.

  5. Jupiter Hadley Avatar
    Jupiter Hadley

    It is so important to think of the “what ifs” but not letting them hold you back is also important! Thank you for these common what ifs and tips.

    1. Alex - Miles and Hikes Avatar
      Alex – Miles and Hikes

      You’re so welcome, Jupiter. I completely agree—thinking through the “what ifs” can be empowering when it’s about preparation, as long as we don’t let them turn into fear that holds us back. I’m really glad the tips were helpful and resonated with you.

  6. Lori Bosworth Avatar
    Lori Bosworth

    I have been on a solo road trip and it was very empowering. It wasn’t a camping experience as I did stay at a bnb, but I still felt very brave as it was a seven hour trip one way!

    1. Alex - Miles and Hikes Avatar
      Alex – Miles and Hikes

      That is brave, Lori—seven hours solo is no small thing. Even staying at a BnB, a solo road trip is incredibly empowering and such a confidence boost. Once you’ve done something like that, it really opens the door to even more solo adventures if you ever decide to try them.

  7. Karen Avatar
    Karen

    I’ve always loved the idea of solo camping but never had enough courage to do it. I looooove the tips you mentioned, they’re very helpful especially what you said about trusting myself more, I need to work on myself.

    1. Alex - Miles and Hikes Avatar
      Alex – Miles and Hikes

      Thank you so much, Karen. You’re definitely not alone in feeling that way—wanting to do it but feeling unsure is incredibly common. Trusting yourself really is a muscle you build over time, and even small steps count. I’m so glad the tips helped, and I hope you give yourself credit for being open to the idea in the first place.

  8. Lani Avatar
    Lani

    Your tips in the small steps section are all really helpful. Doing a more local trip first can be a good way to give it a go and to increase confidence. Sometimes it’s the initial fear of not having done something that can be the main thing that is holding us back. Once we have, there is no stopping us!!!

    1. Alex - Miles and Hikes Avatar
      Alex – Miles and Hikes

      I love that you said that, Lani—you’re so right. So often it’s the fear of the unknown that holds us back, not the experience itself. Starting locally can make that first step feel so much more doable, and once you’ve done it, the confidence really does snowball. Thanks so much for sharing that insight.

  9. Ash Carlo Avatar
    Ash Carlo

    Travelling Solo on my own has been on my bucket list for a long time as I have never done it before. Your post is so inspiring for others like me who need that little bit of a push and motivation

    1. Alex - Miles and Hikes Avatar
      Alex – Miles and Hikes

      Thank you, Ash! I’m so glad the post resonated with you. Taking that first step solo can feel intimidating, but even just thinking about it and planning a small trip is a huge part of the journey. You’ve already got the motivation—now it’s just a matter of giving yourself that first little push!

  10. Natasha Mairs Avatar
    Natasha Mairs

    I have always wanted to do a solo trip but been too afraid. These tips are great and ill keep coming back to them, until I can finally do a trip solo.

    1. Alex - Miles and Hikes Avatar
      Alex – Miles and Hikes

      Thank you, Natasha! It’s completely normal to feel that fear—it’s part of the process. The fact that you’re keeping these tips in mind and revisiting them already shows you’re building your confidence. Little by little, you’ll be ready to take that first solo trip, and once you do it? you’ll wonder why you didn’t try it sooner. I promise you!

  11. Hari Avatar
    Hari

    Overcoming the fear of solo trips is a must for everyone in my opinion. Thanks a lot for talking about it.

    1. Alex - Miles and Hikes Avatar
      Alex – Miles and Hikes

      Absolutely, Hari! I couldn’t agree more—overcoming that fear opens up so many possibilities and gives you a real sense of freedom.

  12. Christy G Avatar
    Christy G

    I haven’t been on a solo trip since last year. I drove to Kansas to see my daughter. I don’t think I could go stay in the wilderness by myself. But I’d love to try camping with my son. Just gotta find a comfy air mattress to sleep on first.

    1. Alex - Miles and Hikes Avatar
      Alex – Miles and Hikes

      That sounds like a wonderful plan, Christy! Starting with a camping trip with your son is a great way to ease into the experience. A comfy sleeping setup can make all the difference—I personally use a trifold memory foam mattress and it’s amazing for comfort. I wouldn’t camp any other way! You can check it out on my website here: https://www.milesandhikes.com/products/

  13. Jess Benoit Avatar
    Jess Benoit

    Your post about facing fears of solo trips is so encouraging and grounded. It honestly made me believe solo adventures are possible with the right mindset and prep.

    1. Alex - Miles and Hikes Avatar
      Alex – Miles and Hikes

      Thank you so much, Jess! I’m really glad the post resonated with you. You’re exactly right—solo adventures are totally possible when you take small steps, prepare thoughtfully, and trust yourself along the way. Once you start, the confidence really grows with each trip!

  14. Tammie Avatar
    Tammie

    This is a wonderful guide. Thank you for sharing, I want to break out of my shell and start to solo travel now that I’m getting older. I think preparation fosters confidence!

    1. Alex - Miles and Hikes Avatar
      Alex – Miles and Hikes

      Absolutely, Tammie! I love that you’re ready to step out and try solo travel—it’s never too late to start (I did in my 40s). You’re spot on that preparation builds confidence; even small planning steps can make a huge difference in how empowered and comfortable you feel on your trips. I’m so glad the guide inspired you!

  15. Melissa Cushing Avatar
    Melissa Cushing

    This is so cool and I bet it is amazing to travel solo. I wish I had done something like this when I was younger….. and I want to go on a trip with my daughter soon. I am so overdue for a getaway 😉

    1. Alex - Miles and Hikes Avatar
      Alex – Miles and Hikes

      Thank you, Melissa! Solo travel really is an amazing experience, but the great news is—it’s never too late to start, and trips with your daughter can be just as special. Even a short getaway can feel so refreshing, and who knows—you might spark a whole new love for adventure!

  16. vidya Avatar
    vidya

    Thank you for all these tips! While I think I can manage solo trips if it is just somewhere where I am sure to find people all the time, not sure if I can am ready to handle solo hiking or camping trips yet.. 🙂

    1. Alex - Miles and Hikes Avatar
      Alex – Miles and Hikes

      You’re very welcome, Vidya! That’s such a smart approach—starting in places where you know there will be people around is a great way to build confidence. Solo hiking or camping can definitely come later, once you’ve had a few small wins under your belt. Taking it step by step is exactly how to make it feel safe and enjoyable.

  17. JRC Avatar
    JRC

    Excellent points mentioned here. I like the idea of parking with an escape route in mind.

    1. Alex - Miles and Hikes Avatar
      Alex – Miles and Hikes

      Exactly, JRC! Having an escape route—or even just knowing your options—can make solo trips feel so much safer and less stressful. It’s a small detail, but it really adds peace of mind and confidence while you’re out there.

  18. jerry godinho Avatar
    jerry godinho

    I really appreciate this encouraging post. It resonates with me because after decades of professional work and personal growth, I’ve learned that stepping out of comfort zones (whether in business or in the wilderness) is where true confidence is built. Your practical framing of common fears like being alone or breaking down in the middle of nowhere makes the challenge feel manageable and empowering rather than scary. Thanks for reminding us that preparation, courage, and a willingness to learn can turn ‘fear’ into a transformative adventure.

    1. Alex - Miles and Hikes Avatar
      Alex – Miles and Hikes

      Thank you so much, Jerry! I love what you said about stepping out of comfort zones being where true confidence is built—it applies so well to both life and the outdoors. I’ve definitely applied this mindset in my own life too, like taking on projects with zero experience and learning—and improving—as I go. Preparation, courage, and that willingness to grow really do turn fear into a transformative adventure, whether it’s in nature or everyday life!

  19. Melanie E Avatar
    Melanie E

    It’s like this was written for me. I do have issues generally about getting lost going to places and also having car issues. Having road side assistance is certainly a good idea and something I would need!!!

    1. Alex - Miles and Hikes Avatar
      Alex – Miles and Hikes

      I totally get that, Melanie! I actually signed up for roadside assistance before my first solo road trip, and funny enough—I’ve never had to use it yet. It’s really more about peace of mind than anything else. Just knowing it’s there if something goes wrong makes the trip feel so much more relaxed, and most of the time, you won’t even need it!

  20. Amber Myers Avatar
    Amber Myers

    Solo trips are the best! You can do what you want, when you want. I’ve been on a few and had the best time. Love your tips!

    1. Alex - Miles and Hikes Avatar
      Alex – Miles and Hikes

      Absolutely, Amber! That freedom is honestly the best part—being able to do exactly what you want, when you want, is what makes solo trips so amazing. I love that you’ve experienced that too!

  21. Nayna Kanabar Avatar
    Nayna Kanabar

    I have never been camping so this post is very helpful as you have covered every aspect in detail. I will keep a note of this post for ref should we embark on a camping trip.

    1. Alex - Miles and Hikes Avatar
      Alex – Miles and Hikes

      Thank you, Nayna! I’m so glad you found it helpful. Even if it’s your first time, having a detailed guide to refer back to can make a big difference. If you want even more step-by-step guidance for beginner camping, hiking, or road trips, I also have a collection of guides designed just for that on my website: https://www.milesandhikes.com/store
      I hope when you do decide to take that camping trip, it helps you feel prepared, confident, and ready to enjoy every moment!

  22. Rebekah Winscott Avatar
    Rebekah Winscott

    I’ve never traveled alone before because it’s always been a little scary to me, so this really spoke to me. Your advice felt reassuring and practical and made the idea seem much more possible.

    1. Alex - Miles and Hikes Avatar
      Alex – Miles and Hikes

      I’m so glad it resonated with you, Rebekah! Solo travel can definitely feel intimidating at first, but taking small, practical steps really does make it feel possible. Even just planning a short trip or a local adventure can build confidence—and before you know it, you’ll see how empowering traveling alone can be.

  23. Lisa Charleston Avatar
    Lisa Charleston

    Wow, these are fantastic tips! You really highlighted so many important points about solo travel. I’ll be honest, I’ve always been a bit nervous about traveling alone for many of the reasons you mentioned. I still remember my first solo trip; I was terrified at first and it took me a while to feel comfortable.”

    1. Alex - Miles and Hikes Avatar
      Alex – Miles and Hikes

      Thank you, Lisa! I completely understand—that first solo trip can feel really nerve-wracking. I’ve found that even small steps, preparation, and giving yourself permission to take it slow make a huge difference. It’s amazing how quickly confidence builds once you get started, and that first trip often becomes one of the most empowering experiences!

  24. alejandra Avatar
    alejandra

    Very wise tips for travelling solo as a woman. Yes, fear is always there, but if we take precautions, it can be a great experience!

    1. Alex - Miles and Hikes Avatar
      Alex – Miles and Hikes

      Thank you so much, Alejandra! I love that you said that—fear is natural, but with a few simple precautions, solo travel can be such a rewarding and empowering experience. It’s great to connect with another Alejandra who feels the same way!

  25. Ben Avatar
    Ben

    These are excellent tips. If you’re prepared, your worries will go down dramatically. I think anyone thinking of traveling solo for the first time should keep this bookmarked.

    1. Alex - Miles and Hikes Avatar
      Alex – Miles and Hikes

      Thank you, Ben! I couldn’t agree more—preparation really is key to easing those worries. I’m so glad you found the tips helpful, and bookmarking them is a great idea for anyone taking their first solo trip!

  26. Beth Avatar
    Beth

    Great post! Solo travel can be daunting for sure. The first time I took a trip on my own, I was very worried. It’s totally natural.

    1. Alex - Miles and Hikes Avatar
      Alex – Miles and Hikes

      Thank you, Beth! You’re absolutely right—those first solo trips can feel daunting, and feeling worried is completely normal. The good news is that each step you take builds confidence, and before long, solo travel starts feeling exciting instead of intimidating.

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